Monday, June 28, 2010

"I don't want to be just a voice on the phone. I have to get to know these guys face-to-face and develop a sincere relationship. That way, if we run into problems in a deal, it doesn't get adversarial. We trust each other and have the confidence we can work things out."
~ Wayne Huizenga

Three Simple Rules for Creating
Million Dollar Deals

By MaryEllen Tribby

It was a birthday that I'll never forget...

My son Connor had just turned seven years old. We had planned a whole weekend of birthday festivities - including a class party, a party with his friends at a local arcade, a family-and-friend gathering, and a family gift-giving session at home. My husband and I surprised him with an Xbox 360.

As the weekend came to a close, I took Connor down to the beach to experience his first sunrise. I admit it - this was more of a present (and memory) for me.

As I tucked Connor in Sunday night, I asked him what his favorite part of his birthday celebration was. Expecting to hear rave reviews about the Xbox or laser tag with his buddies, I was astonished when he replied, "Going to the beach with you, Mom." As I held back my tears, I asked him why. His answer was simple and honest, "Because it was just you and me talking."

This got me thinking about all the partnerships and deal making I have done over the past 22 years. The best deals were not made sitting in a boardroom around a huge mahogany table with 10 or 12 people. They were done one-on-one over lunch or dinner with simple and honest communication leading to mutually beneficial agreements.

Early in my career, for example, I worked for a well-known publisher in NYC, and we wanted to partner with another well-known publisher in Boston. We had a great idea for a new product that would benefit both sets of customers. We organized a special task force comprised of marketers, editors, and customer service people. The other publisher did the same. We had in-person meetings that required flying eight people 300 miles to the other publisher's office. This was followed up by endless conference calls with 12 to 16 people on the phone.

The entire time this was going on, my gut was telling me that this was not the way to do it. But everyone else was convinced that we needed the "collective brilliance" of the team. You do need input from smart people when you're working on the product ... but these meetings were just on contract negotiation. This was just to get the deal done!

You probably won't be surprised to hear that we never agreed upon the terms (someone would always chime in with a last-minute concern), and hundreds of thousands of customers missed out on what would have been a great product. Plus, both my company and the other publisher lost the potential for millions of dollars in revenue.

Since that time, I try to do all my deals on a one-to-one basis.

My deal making success rate is high because I follow three simple guidelines. These apply to everything from making joint venture deals to developing new departments within the company to hiring copywriters. They even apply to vendor and service relationships, such as e-mail deployment, printing and media buying, and hiring freelancers. Here they are:

Rule #1. Know the person behind the business.

To the best of my ability, I try to meet, in person, everyone I do business with. This is the best way to gauge their business ethics and integrity. I will fly cross-country for lunch, or meet them at an industry event and have a drink. I'm not saying you have to like everyone you do business with, but personal contact helps expedite the deal and solidify the end result.

A couple of years ago, I wanted to find a partner who could help my customers understand the importance of product launches. I mentioned this to my friend and business colleague Rich Schefren. Well, it just so happened he was flying to Denver in two days to speak at a conference being put on by Jeff Walker, the foremost expert in product launches. I ended up on the plane with Rich, met Jeff, and three weeks later Jeff was speaking at my company's sold-out Internet marketing conference.

But this is not an anomaly for me.

My friend and colleague David Cross introduced me via e-mail to Tim Ferriss, the author of The 4-Hour Work Week, and I phoned Tim immediately. After discovering that we were both going to be in New York the following week, we made a breakfast date. Two weeks later, Tim's articles started appearing in my company's flagship publication.

These deals happened fast because not only did I get credible references from Rich and David, two people I respect and trust, I also took the time to meet Jeff Walker and Tim Ferriss in person.

Even if you can't meet everyone in person, make sure you have reliable references. Always do your due diligence. Make it your goal to understand not just the company you want to partner with but the person behind the company.

Rule #2. Only make deals that will benefit your customers.

You may be passing up millions of dollars initially, but if a deal is not in the best interests of your customers, it will cost you more in the long run in dollars, time, and reputation.

Two summers ago, a "friend" in the industry came to me with a product he had developed. He showed me sales reports from his launch. He showed me his brilliantly written marketing copy. My first impression was: "My customers need this. They will love it. And it will be a nice contribution to my bottom line."

So I told him, "Great. Just send me a sample of the product so I can evaluate it. If it is as good as you say it is, I am sure I can promote it to my customers."

Well, my "friend" was a bit taken aback. He did not understand why I wanted to see the product when he had already shared his sales report.

I tried to explain that this was my policy - that I had to believe in the product.

He said if I would not just take his word for it, he would take the product to my competitor. Well, he did. And I heard through the grapevine that it was a tremendous hit. Customers were buying it up, both parties were making tons of money - and I secretly questioned my decision.

But it turned out that the product did not live up to the marketing hype. Refunds were coming in like gangbusters, and our "friend's" new partner did not want to work with him anymore.

Had my competitor lived by the same rule that prompted me to say no to this particular deal, he would not have wasted his resources and lost the respect of his customers.

If you follow this rule, you may miss out on a good opportunity every once in a while. But you will also be able to pass up deals that just won't satisfy your customers.

Rule #3. Only make deals that will benefit your organization.

At first glance, this rule might seem to contradict Rule #2. On the contrary, these two rules need to work in unison.

Let's say you are asked to hire a vendor because he is the husband of your best friend. You know him, and you know his product will be good for your customers. But his prices are outrageous and you can get a better price and equal quality from another vendor.

What do you do?

To me, this is a no-brainer. You go with the other vendor. That is a better decision for your company - and for your customers. Never forget: You are running (or starting) a business, and good businesspeople have to make tough decisions.

Deal making takes a lot of time. But it's worth it, because you want to build relationships that last. You can't make a good deal without a good partnership. You can't have a good partnership without a personal relationship. And you can't build a personal relationship through phone calls or e-mails or in a conference room. Know your potential partner well, understand his expectations and needs, and make sure he understands yours. Both companies will benefit.

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